If you are hosting the family or holiday work party at your house this Christmas season you probably have a lot of work to do getting everything ready. Impress your guests with some Christmas decorating ideas and themes using a couple of our tips listed below to help get you started.

Windows. Turn your shutters into giant presents using wrapping paper, large ribbons and bows. Complement the look by taking a large potato sack and connecting to your window box using as Santa's bag. Fill the window box with a variety of gift wrapped boxes. Place some rocks or other heavy items inside the presents to help keep the wind from blowing the presents away.

Snack Display. Cover your snacking area with a white tablecloth. Pull out the old train set and construct a circular track around the area the perimeter. Place a gingerbread house in the center of the display. Place the food on wicker place mats and finish your decorations with scattered sprigs of fir, nandina and acorns.

Mailbox. If you are really good with crafts, try dressing your mailbox up like a Nutcracker doll. You could use nice dressy clothing for boys, with straw, newspaper or rags for the stuffing. Construct the head and hat out of cardboard, and use paint for the face and feathers for the hair. You can use the mailbox door for the mouth and dress the mail box post as if this were the nutcracker lever.

Front Door. Adorn your front door with a classic Christmas theme. Create a wreath to hang from the door, and matching garland for the door frame using a fir wreath and garland with large red ribbons. Place freestanding planters on either side of the front door and fill with either small Christmas trees or poinsettias. Also try wrapping white columns with large red ribbon to provide a look of candy canes.

Fireplace. In addition to hanging stockings from the fireplace, dress up your fireplace with a winter theme. Have the children make a variety of homemade snowflakes and display them around the fireplace. Cover the mantel with confetti or soft white feathers to represent snow. Include accent pieces of white Christmas balls, vases of candy canes and fragrances of peppermint and vanilla scented candles. You could even try hanging faux icicles underneath the mantel to complete this winter decorating Christmas idea.

Dinner Table. Use leftover quilting Christmas theme fabric to create a complementary look for your tablecloth, table runner, place mats and window swag. Incorporate lots of items such as flowers and candles in traditional Christmas colors such as red, white and green into your centerpiece. Adding a single sprig of mistletoe onto everyone's dinner plate can go a long way to complementing your look.

Impress your neighbors and holiday guests with your great Christmas decorating ideas and themes. They will appreciate the hard work you put in to create the perfect Christmas environment and may even ask you for tips or help for next year.

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Making your own and home printing wedding invitations is a great way to save money on your wedding stationery. You've carefully thought about your design and now you're ready to print, but before you do, make sure you read these essential tips for home printing your invites.

- Practice - always do a trial run on your chosen paper. Think about whether the paper looks good? Does the design look OK on your chosen paper colour and size? Do you have good balance in your layout? Is it as you expected? If the answer is 'no' to any of these, it's back to the drawing board!

- Trim your trial run to your finished size (if you need to). This will check that the design fits as intended. It's best to get this right on your first one before you start printing out 50 or so invites!

- Print extras as part of the same batch - that way you'll have spares for any mistakes. I'd recommend at least 10-15 extra print outs for practice cards and as reserves for any mistakes.

- You can also print direct on to pre-made blank cards. Check the weight of paper your printer will take - mine easily takes a 250gsm paper stock, but check your own manufacturer's guidelines.

- Print out any practice cards on the 'draft' or 'fast' setting - it'll save your ink. Then when you're happy, run the invites out at the highest quality.

- For illustrations, pictures or photos - print on the highest quality for the best result.

- Some papers, such as vellum don't absorb the ink so it just sits on top of the paper until it is dry. This means that it's susceptible to smudging. In this case, print out individual sheets and remove them from your printer tray. Dry the print outs flat as individual sheets - not on top of one another.

- Also, print out vellum on 'fast' or 'draft' quality - they'll dry much quicker.

- Don't use watercolours or soluble pencils to add colour to your invitations. Inkjet ink is water soluble, so it will run and smudge with contact with water.

- Use a copy shop if you have any large amounts of cutting or copying to do. A copy shop will also copy onto special papers. This is especially useful for inserts - so use a template, print out one and then let the copy shop copy and cut it to size.

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Having problems with the venue, vendors, weather, key people, sickness, or injury are the top concerns of couples when it comes to their wedding day. You will find there is a specified maximum amount, which can be claimed under each section, and also a deductible may also applies. Be sure to find out the details of your wedding insurance plan before buying.

* Venue: Check to find out if your ceremony and reception veue already has insurance. If it's not, then your wedding insurance can cover the costs involved due to unavoidable cancellation (such as damage or inaccessibility to the ceremony venue), if your reception hall is unable to keep to your reservation due to burning down, electrical outage, or just closed down.

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* Weather: Any weather conditions that will prevent the grom, bride or any relative whose presence at the wedding is essential, or even if uests can't make it due to adverse weather the insurance will cover rescheduling the wedding and all the necesssary details that come with it.ntal, and reception food.

* Sickness or Injury: Wedding insurance will also cover you if a key person, bride or groom become sick and are unale to atttend.

* Military or other Job: Military personnel may be shipped out to another country at a moments notice and wedding insurance cover postphonement due to rde or groom getting called up to service. This may aso apply to your company job to if for instance your compnay relocate and you need to move too.

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* Watches, jewelry, or semi-precious gemstones or pearls even if they are attached to clothing.

* Wedding rings may be covered by the policy but normally engagement ring is not.

You may Require Additional Coverage.

You may like to take out supplemental policies to defend against other damages incured by wedding-related items such as photography and gifts.

* Photography: Some insurance policies pay for you to retake the photographs after the fact if the photographer fails to appear or the original negatives are lost, damaged, stolen, or not properly developed. Some policies will pay to re-stage the event - with the principal participants so that pictures can be retaken. A policy may also pay for the costs incurred for rehiring a photographer, buying a new wedding cake, and new flowers, etc.

* Gifts: Regardless of how to wedding gifts are gven too you on the day, valuable items like gifts are something else you might want to consider insuring. Gift coverage pays to repair or replace non-monetary gifts that are lost, stolen, or damaged. You will have to submit a police report for any stolen gifts. The damage or theft is limited to a specific time frame as stated in your policy before or after the wedding in order for the coverage.

* Attire: This form of coverage pays to repair or replace the bridal gown or other special attire when it is in your possession and is lost, stolen, or damaged (including financial failure of the bridal store).

* Personal Liability: Personal liability covers injury or property damage caused by an accident that occurs during the course of the wedding.

* Medical Coverage: This covers reasonable medical expenses (up to the policy's limits) for each person who is injured during the covered events from a cause of loss, which would be covered by your personal liability.

* Honeymoon: This can cost as much as a new car at times. But before you buy travel insurance to protect your investment, see if your credit card covers you if your luggage gets stolen, your trip is delayed, or you have to cancel it. Certain wedding insurance packages include optional travel insurance for your honeymoon.

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House insurance and home contents insurance is a contentious issue currently. Whilst many of us are cutting back on cover that seems less important during this time of economic struggle, insurance premiums are continuing to increase in price whilst the industry and press warn us of the rise in thefts and burglaries and the absolute need to continue those home contents insurance payments.

However, as we move into summer and the wedding season, those who are planning to get married over the next few months are also being advised to check and increase their insurance, despite reports elsewhere that couples are going to extreme lengths to cut costs.

In an article at abcmoney.co.uk, leading insurers are urging to-be-weds to check their existing contents insurance (if they have any) to be sure that it will cover wedding gifts and other expensive items acquired around the big day. They suggest that on average, wedding gifts are each worth about £79, meaning that one gift each from 50 guests will total £4,000 - and one gift each from 150 guests will mean an additional £11,850 worth of items.

Additionally, it is also typical for the bride and groom to spend another £4,000 on items - which can also include such things that may not be covered by a standard home insurance policy, such as a wedding dress. However, wedding plans that are cheaper in price are also dominating the press, with reports of brides buying second hand bridal wear, and having a barbecue instead of an expensive sit-down meal.

Alongside the need to check your contents insurance, The Daily Mail has also reported of the increased importance of considering specialist wedding insurance, citing the global economic crisis being the cause of a higher number of business failures currently. Wedding insurance specialist, Chris Pitt, argues that hotels, restaurants, dress suppliers and caterers are all struggling in the downturn and advises that cover for such an eventuality is entirely logical.

According to The Independent, the average price of a wedding today is 97 percent higher (£21,089) than it was 11 years ago, even though we are in a recession. However, creditexpert.co.uk does also highlight that many of us are postponing marriage plans during the economic crisis. It seems to me that those who do choose to get married this year should certainly acknowledge the cost of insurance, or maybe consider re-scheduling until a better time.

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For future British expats who are dreaming of living abroad when they retire might want to consider Asia as their destination. While most British expatriates would prefer living in some parts of Europe, the United States, and Canada, there are still some who consider Asia as a feasible place to live in.

Southeast Asia is known to have the most beautiful beaches in the world and this is one of the reasons why most expats prefer to make a living in this tropical side of the world. When moving overseas, it is imperative that you study the country you wish to settle into - knowing about the cost of living, knowing if there are excellent expatriate health insurance policies, the climate, the culture, and the people, among others.

For British expats who are thinking of moving overseas particularly Asia because of the warm weather, here is a list of some of the best places in Asia to retire.

• Malaysia - This country has all the right combinations - from a wonderfully tropical climate, to beautiful beaches, to rainforests - name it and you'll see them there. This multicultural place is home to a lot of expats from India, China, UK, etc. This country has a rich cultural background with a lot of colorful religious and cultural celebrations. While it is not to be denied that poverty exists and being a Third World country, the roads and infrastructure are in excellent condition, reason why this country is a favorite of tourists, too. Malaysia is a former British colony so most people speak English.

• Singapore - This country is emerging to have a booming economy and it has one of the largest expat communities in Asia. Singapore is not the 5th wealthiest country in the world for nothing and a lot of British expats who prefer living abroad settle here. This country is famous for being the cleanest country in the world. Though they offer high standards of education, it is inexpensive to study in this country. You just have to get used to the very humid climate, plus the monsoon season lasts for about two months.

• Thailand - This country has the lowest cost of living in Asia while providing high quality of life. Locals are considered to be the friendliest and most accommodating. Phuket is a favorite destination. Expatriate health care insurance standards are increasing making it feasible for expats to live in this country permanently.

These are just three of the main reasons why Asia is a great destination for people who are dreaming of living abroad.

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A wedding insurance is acquired to protect the couple, hosts and guest at the wedding ceremony. It is a growing industry and covers many aspect of the wedding ceremony that can make the couple incur costs. For a small amount of money, you can protect yourself against many forms of liabilities that can occur during and after your wedding ceremony.

Your wedding insurance can protect against disappointments. If your caterer refuses to prepare the food, your band fails to show up or your florist presents the wrong decoration, you are covered. For the premium you pay will entitle you to a substitute for whatever service you have missed even if it means substituting it a higher cost. It particularly protects you against instances where you can not recover your deposits paid to service providers like wedding planners, photographers or car rental companies.

You can get hurt during the wedding ceremony. The wedding hall or the reception venue can pose some injury to you. The insurance covers these kinds of accidents. Many people have argued that venues have insurance on their own but it is advisable to complement that with your specially arranged insurance so that in the event that the policy of the venue owner does not suffice, you can add up.

Aside the rental company refusing to honor its obligations, you can also get hurt in the course of being transported to and from the wedding venue. You may already have a motor insurance and the rental company would necessarily have one as well but it pays to have extra coverage on that day.

So these are what wedding insurance cover. They are extra protection you can take to avoid embarrassment and safeguard the investment, time and effort you have put into your wedding ceremony.

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This article will deal with some of the intricacies of wording your wedding invitation. Of course, you may choose to deviate from the suggestions below, but should you do so, the wedding invitation will be less formal than should you use the phrasing below.

First, formal invitations use more traditional spellings of words. It is traditional to use the English (as in England) spellings of any words ending with "-or". Instead, you should end these words with "-our". For example, you should say "honour" rather than "honor". This does not apply to other English spellings, such as "realise" rather than "realize" and so forth. Just use the "-our" ending whenever it would apply.

Second, you should never use abbreviations, with four exceptions: "Mr.", "Mrs.", "Ms." and "R.S.V.P." Any other titles, such as "Professor", "Doctor" or "Monsignor" should all be spelled out in full. This also applies to any street names, so you should say "Street" rather than "St.", and also the word "Saint" should be spelled out in full. It applies to name as well. Even if someone normally uses an initial, as do many people who go by their middle names, that name should be spelled out in full. You are not obliged to use your first name if you go by your middle name, but you shouldn't use an initial.

Third, any numbers should be spelled out, including years. Note that years are not capitalized, so this year is the year "two thousand and ten", not "Two Thousand and Ten", nor does one use hyphens except with words like "ninety-nine" (which won't really be an issue again until 2021). Time also should be spelled out, rather than written in numbers, and you should always use the term "o'clock", unless you are speaking of twelve o'clock, in which case you should say "noon". Times, like years, are also not capitalized. The exception to this rule is street addresses, for which you may use numbers rather than letters.

Fourth, the wedding invitation should be addressed from the hosts of the wedding. This is whoever put significant contributions into the funding of the wedding. There may be multiple hosts, including both sets of parents and the couple themselves. If the couple wishes, and they have shared the expenses with their parents, they may exclude themselves from being hosts, but not vice versa. That is, they may not exclude their parents as hosts if their parents contributed significantly to the funding of the wedding.

If you follow these steps, you can tailor your wedding invitation while simultaneously having variety in the actual phrases you wish to use.

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Moving to a new country is one of life's biggest events. Whether one is relocating to take up a temporary work assignment, or permanently immigrating, one's spouse (or life partner) is normally essential to the equation and will often play a vital supporting role in the process. It is, therefore, essential to ensure in advance that the immigration laws of the country in question recognize this important individual as a proper "spouse" for immigration or visa purposes.

The United States currently takes a narrow view on the definition of a spouse for immigration purposes. The result of this is that spouses and partners in many not-uncommon types of marriages and relationships are entitled only to limited - if any - immigration benefits. In this article, we review the criteria used by the United States government to determine whether it will recognize a spouse for immigration purposes, as well as how said criteria applies to several marital situations.

THE THREE PRONG TEST

United States Citizenship and Immigration Services ("USCIS") and the United States Department of State ("DOS") both apply a three-prong test to assess the validity of a marriage for immigration purposes. The following three-prong test is applied both in assessing eligibility for a derivative non-immigrant visa (e.g., L2 visa, E2 visa, H4 visa, etc.) or an immigrant visa, as well as in matters of family-based sponsorship by a United States Citizen or Legal Permanent Resident:

Prong 1: Was the marriage valid in the place of celebration?

USCIS and DOS both judge the validity of the marriage based on the laws of the place where the marriage was celebrated. A marriage that is not valid in the place where it was celebrated will not be recognized as a marriage for the purposes of receiving immigration benefits.

By way of example, a marriage in Thailand must be registered with the civil registrar, the Amphur. A religious ceremony alone does not create a valid marriage in Thailand. Thus, although a religious ceremony may be sufficient to register a marriage in certain states in the United States, if the marriage that took place in Thailand was only a religious ceremony, without the required civil registration, the spouse will not be eligible for United States immigration benefits due to the invalidity of the marriage in Thailand.

By contrast, informal and tribal ceremonies that would not rise to the formality normally required to register a marriage in the United States may qualify for immigration benefits if the ceremonies meet all of the legal requirements to be valid in the country performed. This element comes up often with common law marriages, which are discussed later in further detail.

There may be the opportunity to cure an invalid marriage and obtain immigration benefits. In an opinion by the General Counsel for the former Immigration and Nationality Service, now USCIS, an Iranian mosque marriage that was performed in Turkey was found not to be valid under the laws of Turkey; however, a subsequent civil marriage validated the marriage in Turkey, thus rendering the spouse eligible for immigration benefits. (See INS General Counsel Legal Opinion No. 91-58, File No. CO831 (July 25, 1991)). Marriages that were previously ineligible for United States immigration benefits may even be cured by subsequent laws in the relevant country that cause the previously defective marriages to be recognized as valid in that country.

This approach also applies in determining whether a prior divorce was valid; USCIS and DOS will look to whether the subsequent remarriage was considered valid in the jurisdiction where it took place.

Prong 2: Is there a strong public policy against this type of marriage in the state of domicile or, for couples who marry abroad, the state of intended domicile?

USCIS and DOS may refuse to recognize a spouse for purposes of immigration benefits in some exceptional circumstances when the marriage is contrary to public health or morals, including plural marriages and marriages between close relatives. Each of these situations requires complex analysis and is discussed later in further detail.

Prong 3: Is the marriage bona fide as defined by immigration law?

The United States Congress may prescribe a federal standard under which certain marriages, although valid at the place of celebration, are not recognized for immigration benefits. Such federal standards also disregard and override any public policy in favor or against such marriages in the state of current or intended domicile.
The most notable of such Congressional standards is the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), which defines marriage as the legal union between one man and one woman. Under DOMA, applications for immigration benefits based on a marriage of two persons of the same-sex have been uniformly denied, regardless of whether the marriage was entered into in a country that legally recognizes same-sex marriages. DOMA also supersedes any state law in regards to immigration benefits and restricts immigration benefits regardless of whether the same-sex couple will be living in a US state that recognizes same-sex marriage. Visa options for same-sex partners and spouses are discussed later in further detail.

Immigration laws also prescribe that proxy marriages or marriages for the sole purpose of obtaining immigration benefits ("sham marriages") are not recognized as bona fide marriages. A proxy marriage involves a ceremony where the marrying individuals are not in each other's physical presence, but rather are married by picture, telephone, radio, television, or similar. Such marriages may not entitle the spouse to immigration benefits even if it is considered a valid marriage in the place of performance. However, proxy marriages may lead to immigration benefits if it can be shown that the couple consummated the marriage through cohabitation following the ceremony, thus resulting in a bona fide marriage under US immigration laws.

A marriage that is entered into by parties without the intention to live as man and wife, but rather to obtain immigration benefits, will not be considered a bona fide marriage for the purpose of obtaining such benefit regardless of being otherwise valid. Such sham marriages not only prevent the foreign spouse from obtaining immigration benefits, but in cases where a United States Citizen or Legal Permanent Resident files an immigrant petition based on a sham marriage, the United States Citizen or Legal Permanent Resident may face criminal sanctions including imprisonment and fines.

The main consideration by USCIS when evaluating a potential sham marriage is whether the parties intended to establish a life together at the time of the marriage. USCIS looks to the conduct of the parties for this determination, including evidence of courtship, the circumstances of the wedding ceremony, shared residences, insurance policies, bank accounts, and property agreements. Other factors often considered include large age differences, language barriers, and other religious and cultural differences.

USCIS does not, however, consider the following factors to be automatically indicative of a sham marriage if the marriage is otherwise valid and subsisting: 1.) Cohabitation of the parties to the marriage, but without sexual relations because of age or illness; or, 2.) The legal or physical separation of the parties, without dissolution of the marriage. A separated spouse may still be entitled to immigration benefits if there exists an intention to reconcile.

THE THREE PRONG TEST IN PRACTICE

Looking now to the application of the three-prong test, following is an examination of current USCIS and DOS policy on immigration benefits for same-sex couples, transgender spouses, cohabitating partners and common law spouses, plural marriages, and incestuous marriages:

I. Same-Sex Couples

USCIS and DOS will deny an application for immigration benefits as a spouse in a same-sex marriage or civil partnership based on the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), as of the date of this article.

Section 3 of DOMA states in relevant part that:

In determining the meaning of any Act of Congress, or of any ruling, regulation, or interpretation of the various administrative bureaus and agencies of the United States, the word 'marriage' means only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife, and the word 'spouse' refers only to a person of the opposite sex who is a husband or a wife.

In February 2011, Attorney General Eric Holder announced that the Obama Administration had determined that Section 3 of DOMA was unconstitutional and that the Department of Justice would no longer defend it in federal court challenges. However, the Department of Justice must still enforce DOMA pending a legislative repeal of the act or similar final judicial decision. Numerous and significant court cases are currently ongoing regarding this issue, while a number of legislative acts have also been introduced to the United States Congress. However, at the time of this article, DOMA remains controlling.

Based on DOMA, USCIS and DOS stand firm that any derivative visa, immigrant sponsorship, cancellation of removal, fianc矇(e) visas, or waiver application dependent upon a spousal relationship, filed based on a same-sex-marriage or civil partnership, will be denied. Furthermore, USCIS and DOS will make an immediate decision on such matters, per standard processing times. USCIS and DOS will not honor requests that USCIS and DOS hold filed cases until the resolution of DOMA litigation.

A same-sex spouse must therefore seek alternative visa options to accompany a spouse holding a non-immigrant visa or to join his or her United States Citizen or Legal Permanent Resident spouse in the United States.

A subsection of the B-2 visitor visa provisions authorize DOS to issue special visitor visas to the same-sex spouse or partner of a foreign national that holds a long-term non-immigrant visa. This type of visitor visa contains a particular annotation that the holder is the same-sex spouse or partner to ease questioning and scrutiny by officers at the port of entry to the United States. However, like ordinary visitor visas, the same-sex spouse or partner will only be given authorized entry to the United States of up to six (6) months at a time. Stays for longer than six (6) months will need to be authorized by filing applications to extend status in the United States, with the associated fees. Furthermore, the same-sex spouse or partner is not authorized to work in the United States, whether or not the work is paid, and regardless of whether the work is for a United States company or foreign company. If the same-sex spouse or partner wishes to work in the United States, he or she will need to obtain an appropriate visa in his or her own right.

For same-sex spouses or partners of United States Citizens or Legal Permanent residents, this subsection of the visitor visa regulations only applies if the United States Citizen or Legal Permanent Resident normally lives overseas, but is traveling to the United States for a temporary period of time.

This visa subsection does not cover the same-sex spouse or partner of a United States Citizen or Legal Permanent Resident that normally resides in the United States. In adjudicating all visitor visa applications, DOS must determine that the applicant's visit is temporary and that the applicant has significant ties to their home country. A marriage to a United States Citizen or Legal Permanent Resident residing in the United States, even when the marriage is not recognized by United States immigration laws, may result in the denial of a visitor visa application by DOS based on the presumption by DOS that the applicant will not return to their home country, but will rather remain in the United States with their spouse or partner.

Same-sex spouses or partners of United States Citizens and Legal Permanent Residents will need to obtain an appropriate visa in their own right. Some of the options to do so could include investing in a business in the United States, a transfer from a foreign employer to an affiliated United States employer, finding United States employment sponsorship, or enrolling in an approved education or training course. Each of these options needs to be fully evaluated against the qualifications and circumstances of the same-sex spouse.

II. Transsexual Marriage

A marriage in which the two parties were born the same-sex, but where one party underwent gender reassignment surgery, may entitle the spouse to immigration benefits. The Board of Immigration Appeals held in the Matter of Lovo-Lara that DOMA did not apply to transsexuals in a heterosexual relationship based on post-operative gender. Therefore, the analysis of whether the marriage is recognized turns back to the validity in the jurisdiction of the marriage.

The controlling test in determining whether such marriages are recognized for immigration purposes is whether the marriage was considered a valid and heterosexual marriage in the jurisdiction where the marriage occurred. The marriage in the precedent case of Matter of Lovo-Lara, as an example, occurred in the state of North Carolina. The transsexual spouse obtained a permitted change of the sex on her birth certificate following her gender reassignment to female and then married her male husband. The court noted that North Carolina registered their marriage as legal, but that same-sex marriage is not legal in North Carolina. Thus, the marriage was both considered heterosexual and valid in North Carolina, and the spouse was entitled to immigration benefits.

A number of US states, as well as foreign countries, have legal precedent as to whether such a marriage is valid and heterosexual in that jurisdiction. In reviewing whether the marriage is valid and heterosexual, it is important to note that some jurisdictions, including Illinois and Texas, allow a post-operative transsexual to change the gender on their birth certificate, but do not recognize the gender reassignment as changing the individual's sex for purposes of marriages. Also, a marriage in which one party is a post-operative transsexual may be recognized in some jurisdictions as a valid marriage, but still as a same-sex marriage. The registered same-sex marriage would not recognized for immigration purposes per DOMA.

In many jurisdictions the statute is not clear or there is no binding precedent. In such case, USCIS may be satisfied as to the validity of the marriage through submission of a court order, official record, or statement from an appropriate government agency indicating that the gender reassignment surgery has resulted in a change of the person's legal sex under the law of the place of the marriage.

Accordingly, the marriage of two parties who were born the same-sex may be recognized for immigration benefits if all of the following are satisfied:

1. One individual underwent gender reassignment surgery; and
2. The person who underwent gender reassignment surgery has taken whatever legal steps exist and may be required to have the legal change of sex recognized for purposes of marriage under the law of the place of marriage; and
3. The marriage is recognized under the law of the jurisdiction of marriage as a valid and heterosexual marriage.

III. Common Law Marriages

An actual marriage between two people made without formal registry, often known as a common law marriage, is recognized for purposes of immigration benefits only if common law marriages are recognized in the jurisdiction where the unregistered marriage took place. In reviewing the validity of these marriages, USCIS and DOS will look first to determine if common law marriages were recognized by the jurisdiction at the time of unregistered marriage, and then as to whether the parties fulfilled all of the requirements of the jurisdiction to create a common law marriage, such as mutual agreement, cohabitation, etc.

USCIS and DOS will also look to ensure that the recognition of the common law marriage by the jurisdiction bestows all of the same legal rights and duties as individuals in lawfully contracted marriages. Factors for consideration include, but are not limited to, whether the relationship can only be terminated by divorce and if there is an intestate distribution of an estate.

Most US states no longer recognize common law marriages. However, unless the jurisdiction has invalidated common law marriages recognized under former regulations, USCIS and DOS will rely on whether the common law marriage was recognized at the time of its inception, regardless of whether the jurisdiction is currently recognizing new common law marriages.

IV. Cohabitating Partners

Cohabitating partners who have not entered into a valid, registered marriage and are not in a recognized common law marriage are not eligible for the immigration benefits of a spouse. Similar to same-sex partners, heterosexual partners cohabitating in a relationship akin to marriage are eligible to apply for a special visitor visa to accompany a partner travelling to the United States with a long-term non-immigrant visa. The cohabitating partners of a United States Citizen or Legal Permanent Resident who normally resides outside of the United States, but is travelling only temporarily back to the United States is also eligible to apply for this special visitor visa.

This special visitor visa authorizes entry to the United States for up to six (6) months, with extensions of up to six (6) months at a time possible from within the United States upon further application to USCIS. If the cohabitating partner wishes to work in the United States, he or she will need to obtain the appropriate United States visa in his or her own right.

It is unlikely that DOS will issue a cohabitating partner of a United States Citizen or Legal Permanent Resident a visitor visa if the United States Citizen or Legal Permanent Resident is normally residing in the United States, due to the presumption that the partner will not return to their foreign residency. Cohabitating partners in these situations will either need to obtain an appropriate long-term non-immigrant visa or enter into a valid marriage to obtain immigration benefits.

V. Plural (Polygamous) Marriages

United States law does not recognize plural (i.e. "polygamous") marriages, regardless of whether the marriages in question are legal and recognized in the jurisdiction of marriages. Thus, a marriage that is entered into before a previous marriage of either party is ended by divorce, annulment or death is void and invalid for US immigration purposes. (Note: Disappearance of one spouse may also constitute the legal end of a marriage in certain jurisdictions.)

In cases where the soundness of the divorce is in question, USCIS and DOS look to whether the first marriage was fully and legally terminated based on the law of the jurisdiction of the termination and whether the second marriage was regarded as lawful at its place of celebration, as a monogamous marriage. For example, in Matter of Moncayo, the Board of Immigration Appeals found that a divorce decree that was issued in Ecuador in the absence of one party to the divorce was not valid in New York, thus the party's remarriage in New York was not valid.

Even when the intent is for a monogamous marriage, individuals seeking immigration benefits as, or for, a spouse that has entered into a previous marriage should ensure that the prior marriage was properly terminated. If the prior marriage was not properly terminated and the current marriage is void, the beneficiary/spouse will not be eligible for immigration benefits until the prior marriage is properly terminated and a valid marriage occurs.
Whilst polygamy is legal and practiced in many customs and cultures around the world, it is illegal in the United States and immigration law recognizes only the first of the plural marriages. The discussion of immigration benefits in such marriages will be discussed from the perspective of one husband with plural wives; however, the discussion applies identically to a situation of one wife with plural husbands.

Only the first wife of a polygamist husband who obtains a long-term non-immigrant visa to the United States, such as the L-1 visa, may obtain a derivative non-immigrant visa, such as the L-2 visa. It is not simply that only one wife may accompany the polygamist husband, it is that only his first wife is eligible for a derivative visa as the marriages to later wives are void and invalid under United States immigration law.

The second wife and any later wives will need to qualify for a long-term non-immigrant visa in their own right, as the principal applicant, to able to accompany their husband to the United States on a long-term basis. DOS also grants officers at United States Embassies and Consulates the discretion to issue visitor visas to plural wives to accompany their husband.

While the husband and the first wife are eligible for non-immigrant visas, the Immigration and Nationality Act 禮 212(a)(10)(A) renders polygamists ineligible for immigrant visas. This section only renders individuals that practice polygamy inadmissible and it does not extend to individuals who merely believe in or advocate polygamy without themselves entering into plural marriages. A polygamist that wishes to become a Legal Permanent Resident of the United States will need to divorce all wives besides his first and abandon the practice of polygamy before commencing the residency process. DOS consular officers are instructed to be suspicious of former polygamists who divorce plural wives just before moving forward with the residency process and must review the matter to ensure that the former polygamist will not resume the practice following issuance of Legal Permanent Resident status.

VI. Incestuous Marriages

An incestuous marriage between close relatives will only be recognized for immigration benefits if the marriage was valid at the place of origin and the cohabitation of the parties at their intended residence in the United States will not incur criminal punishment. When looking at the factor of the intended residence, the controlling factor is not whether the state performs such marriages, but rather if the state deems such marriages or relationships illegal. Marriages by cousins and by an uncle and niece are not illegal in many states and have led to immigration benefits.

CONCLUSION

All of the above-discussed situations create complex and often challenging immigration cases that must be handled with care. USCIS and DOS do not offer guidance or specific instructions on the appropriate presentation of these cases, nor should it be assumed that USCIS and DOS are fully practiced in such situations. The guidance of immigration lawyers who are well-versed in such cases will help to ensure that the appropriate visa category is sought and that the legal eligibility for the immigration benefit, with appropriate documentation, is thoroughly demonstrated to USCIS and DOS for the most efficient processing.

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Our beautiful earth yields so many raw materials that mankind can't help but to exploit it for all that its worth; which may sound like a horrible corporate scheme to tear up the earth but it's actually a fascinating find and I'll tell you why. The jewelry industry has long sought a more durable material to be used for crafting men's wedding rings.

A ring that does not scratch or bend like your grandpa's old gold wedding band or drain the bank like platinum rings was nearly unheard of until now.

We will mine, melt, mold and nowadays will machine whatever we can into something that we can call creative, contemporary, but most importantly, custom! I mean seriously, now a days with custom cars, computers or even custom blended coffees why not have something that is truly yours. The only problem is that with all the wedding rings options available, how can one decide which fits the your active lifestyle best while at the same time saves you some scratch for that crazy hobby craft of yours. The key is finding something that can actually last as long as the vows you soon plan to take yet still look good enough to wear in a tux or even that plush t-shirt n jeans you love so much.

Thus the journey in search of the "perfect metal" churned up some quite intriguing options like Titanium, Steel or even Damascus. Damascus, what the Heck?! Somehow the idea of using a Cobalt Chrome came about too. Typically known as a very cheap metal commonly used for making cutting tools, Cobalt Chrome recently emerged as quite an impressive idea unfortunately an idea is all that it'll ever be since Cobalt Chrome is still scratchable.

What did we find you ask??

All of these potential options failed to resolve the ugliest issue related to jewelry..SCRATCHING! So within the science of a little known element is the answer to your grandpa's regret.. And it's called Tungsten! That's right, Tungsten! Historically known as just element 74 on the period table, its impact on humans as we know it will be repositioned from the heaviest element known to man to the toughest wedding ring known to man.

Mother Earth proudly presents you with a Tungsten wedding band, the ultimate symbol of your marriage commitment!

BUT let the smart shopping in you BEWARE! Most jewelers recommend that you make sure to secure you investment with something that has a warranty or insurance, just as you would with that custom car or sleek big screen you just got from Best Buy. Simply put, your wedding ring is important. So let the melt down of metals begin and let the science of Tungsten Wedding Bands be the judge of what wedding ring you buy next!

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Decorating a church for a wedding may not seem like such a difficult feat. However, there is some work involved. You don't want to find yourself in a situation where you use up all of the decorations you have to only find that you need more. That can result in a disaster, especially if you can't find anything that is the same color or the same thing that you're out of.

You need to make sure that you can go to the church and assess the sanctuary before you even order your decorations. You need to know how many pews there are, how many windows, the width of the windows, details about the altar area, and so much more.

So when you are decorating a church for a wedding, ask yourself these three questions:

- What decorations can I use? This is an important question because some churches will not allow certain decorations. They have a rather traditional view of decorations. So make sure you consult with the church first. Tell them what you want to do and make sure that it is allowed. You don't want to buy decorations and then find out that you can't use what you have bought.

- Are the decorations necessary? Many churches are already very ornate, which means they may not need much in the way of decorations. So you have to evaluate how much you actually need based on the natural décor of the sanctuary. This can save you a lot of money on the decorations.

- What decorations are suitable? Again, you have to evaluate the sanctuary so that you know what decorations are suitable. If you don't want to have an extremely formal event, some flowers here and there are great. You don't have to overdo it. Although many flowers are nice, church sanctuaries have a natural beauty to them. And the bride is the focus of the wedding anyway. People pay closer attention to her dress.

Some tips

There are simple tips that you can use to make the ceremony look great. You may even be able to borrow some decorations from the church, especially if past wedding parties have left some of their things behind. Sometimes churches will store those things that have been left behind in case they can be used again.

Churches may also have candelabras that you can use. Most churches already have them and they will not have a problem letting you borrow them. In the meantime, you can use flowers in the windows, on the altar, and use flowers at the end of the pews so that the aisle is lined with flowers. Sometimes the simplest of decorations can be the most beautiful. Also, having flowers at the ends of the pews go great with the petals that are sprinkled along the aisle by the flower girl.

And when it comes to your flower arrangements, it is better to opt for larger arrangements than a series of smaller arrangements.

Research

So make sure you do the proper research. If you don't, then you may find that you have too many decorations or not enough. Consult with anyone in the church who can help you with this so that you know what is appropriate and what isn't appropriate. You might be amazed at how much time, effort, and money you save by doing the proper assessment before the wedding. In the end, you'll be able to have a beautiful wedding that is charming and a lot of fun for everyone. It is the most important day of your life, so it is important that it is perfect.

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