There are so many beautiful wedding invitations. Although I make my own invitations for almost everything, I have seen some that I love. What is upsetting is those beautiful wedding invitations are sent with labels on them. YUK!

When you receive a wedding invitation you subconsciously determine what the event will be like. A nice announcement puts you in the frame of mind for a nice wedding or wedding reception.

So how do you address these beautiful invites.

Here are 5 basic points when addressing a wedding invitation.

  1. Put the return address on the flap or left hand corner. Either will work. I usually put the name on too. Some will just use the address. Both are proper etiquette. But an address must be on the envelope.

  2. If you are using two envelopes, the outside is the formal. Inside will list guest, or children's names. If you are sending to aunt and uncles it would read: Uncle John and Aunt Ruth. If they have children at home the children's names go on the envelope. Names are placed oldest to youngest. Any child over 18 can receive their own invitation. If you don't want children at the wedding or reception do not put names on the envelope. This tells your guests that it is an adult event.

  3. You don't have to use two envelopes, The tradition of two envelopes started years ago. A horseman delivered the announcements and the outside would get dirty so they used two envelopes. Today it is more environmentally friendly to just use one. You may even choose a seal and send wedding invitation. These don't use any envelopes and you have a post card for the RSVP.

  4. When using one envelope the outside envelope will have all names. You will put the Mr. and Mrs. On the first line. Children are put on the second. The children are listed oldest to youngest with a comma between names. If there are too many children you can say family. It is best to put the names on the envelope.

  5. The proper etiquette when using informal first names is to put the woman's name first. This allows the man's first and surname to remain together. For example Ruth and Tom Baker, this keeps Tom Baker together without separating his surname.

Although this is just a few points to addressing a wedding invitation it will give you some ideas to follow. I have addressed my invitations on my printer for years and have found it to work beautifully.

The use of labels on invites should be avoided. Find someone will good penmanship if you are not going to match them to your invitation on the printer.

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If you have recently been invited to serve as maid of honor at a wedding, congratulations! Being the maid of honor is truly special -- this is a role that you will never forget as long as you live! Here are some of the things you will need to consider as you perform your duties as maid of honor:

Pre-wedding planning & activities

As the maid of honor, you will be the bride's closest confidant. The bride will be expecting your assistance in making many important decisions pertaining to the wedding. She will also expect you to attend as many prenuptial events as possible. You might help her select wedding invitations, bridal shower invitations, and maybe even help her in addressing them and sending those out.

The bride will ask you to help her choose the bridesmaids' dresses and accessories. You might coordinate a shopping day with the bride and bridesmaids, in order to have everyone in agreement on what they will wear on the big day.

Afterwards, you will want to make sure all the necessary purchases have been completed, fittings done, and plan hair styling and make-up sessions right before the wedding.

One of the main functions as maid of honor is to plan and co-host the bridal shower. Send out the invitations, keep a log of respondents. Scope out locations, make reservations, order a cake. Plan the entertainment, games, and list of gift suggestions if there is no bridal gift registry. Coordinate and purchase the wedding gift from the bridal party.

Another activity is to help address the place cards for the wedding reception. And one of the most important things of all is to prepare a speech or toast for the reception too. Please check out my website for the best wedding quotes and sayings you can add to your speech.

The day before the wedding, you will attend the rehearsal and the rehearsal dinner.

On the day of the wedding

As the maid of honor, you might help the bride prepare for the wedding by helping her get dressed. Plan enough time so you won't feel rushed. Make sure the bride has had something to eat before the ceremony so she does not feel faint. Help the bride with her make-up. Keep in frequent touch with the bridesmaids and other attendants to make sure everyone is adhering to the schedule.

Right before the start of the ceremony, arrange the bride's veil and train for the processional. During the ceremony, you will hold the bride's bouquet. At the end of the ceremony, you might want to adjust the bride's gown and train again for the recessional -- make sure she looks picture perfect!

At the reception, you will stand in the receiving line to graciously welcome the guests. Usually after the best man's toast, you will give a short speech followed by your own toast to the bride and groom. This is the moment in which all eyes will be on you! So make sure that all your hard work culminates in a perfectly constructed and rehearsed speech, which you will deliver with great poise.

So now you know what being maid of honor is all about. Don't forget to visit my site for more great tips including a wedding planning checklist, wedding quotes and sayings, and wedding speeches for other members of the bridal party. Enjoy the experience!

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Decorating a bridal shower can be simple and fun. Here are some tips to follow:

1. Follow a theme
If you're concerned with your party seeming "put together" and having continuity from start to finish, it is a good idea to have a bridal shower theme. Themes can be as simple as choosing a few colors you like and threading them throughout the party, or as elaborate as showcasing a specific designer. Most themes are fun and full of potential.

Some popular themes follow:
*Honeymoon: decorate with posters, photos, and items showcasing the location of the bridal couple's honeymoon
*Lingerie: host an adult pajama party and invite a salesperson to do a lingerie demonstration for your bridal shower. Decorate in boudoir silks and reds or in a fifties pajama party theme
*Stock the Pantry: each guest is instructed to bring a gift that can be used to stock the pantry or kitchen of the new couple. Decorate with potted herbs, herbal prints, and flowers.
*Kiss the Cook: for a woman with culinary leanings, have a chef do a demonstration at the bridal shower. For a specific niche of cooking, decorate with the country of origin in mind (eg. France, Italy). For a general cooking theme, decorate with kitchen utensils and retro food prints.

2. Use food as decoration
Potted and fresh herbs make good decorations. Appetizers and desserts can be arranged in tiers. Petit-fours and tea sandwiches or cookies make especially pretty tiered sculptures. Certain foods, like cheese fondue or chocolate fountains, are decorative enough to become centerpieces on their own. Using the food to fill out the decorations keeps both costs and cleanup down and makes a unique look.

3. Create tablescapes
Decorating at a party where food will be served need not be as simple as throwing a tablecloth over a table, setting out place settings, and serving lunch. Take time to contrast and combine colors, textures, and patterns to build a layered, finished look. Use a bold tablecloth in one of the theme colors. Layer with placemats of two more contrasting colors. Integrate antique, thrift-store, or found place settings, vases, and silverware for a unique look. For an example of what this looks like, watch Semi-Homemade Cooking with Sandra Lee on The Food Network. She creates a special tablescape for each show to go along with the dishes she has made.

4. Use the entire room
Don't forget to use lighting, music, and room elements to aid the decoration of the party. Changing the lighting by using table lamps, fairy lights, or candles can create an incredible difference in mood and ambiance. You can also use or depart from the season you're in to add to the decoration of the party. Allow the scene outside of the window to become a decorative touch. Bring the season inside with found nature objects and flowers.

What you need most when decorating for a bridal shower is creativity and an open mind. No matter your budget, you can make a bridal shower look great. Use what you have, play up the best parts, and tie it together with color or a theme.

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So you plan to get married - that's one big step. In fact, it's possibly the biggest step your will make in your life. The rest of your life depends on your partnership and how it pans out. So the big day cometh! This is were you will have to sit down and plan what type of wedding you are going to have and what budget you have to work with.

Think about making an impression and creating a lasting memory with all your guests. One way to do this is create your invitation announcements in a humorous and very personable way. Funny wedding invitations featuring the couple in a choice of illustration could be the answer. Through experience these type of invitation cards are always kept by the guests as momentous. How many weddings have you been to when you have done this - kept an invitation?

It is because the humorous wedding cards are so unique and individual that people want to keep them. Apart from this, clients receive so many calls before the wedding . They are talking about the wonderful cards - having never seen anything like them before. This is a pre-wedding buzz that can not be gotten from any other type of personalised wedding invitation.

Having made your decision you will now need to sort out the correct "invitation etiquette" and invitation text for your wedding cards. The majority of wedding stationers will help you out on the right and wrong way of producing your invitation announcements. Normally you will send in the details and receive a proof in a matter of days. This then is the first step in planning your memorable wedding. After all you should only be doing this big day once so plan ahead and get it right for you and your partner.

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There is a lot of wedding planning needed before and after the main event. You need to make sure the wedding invitations reach on time, the wedding reception preparations are carried out, wedding decorations match your wedding flowers, etc.


The wedding etiquette requires you to thank each one of the people who attended your wedding as well as those who send you gifts. You need to put in a lot of thoughts before you finalize your wedding thank you card wording. But, before we go through some of the wedding thank you card wording examples, let's have a look at the rules for writing one.


It is common courtesy that you write each wedding thank you card wording by hand. You should send over the wedding thank you cards as soon as possible, but no later than a month. Make sure you write your name as well as your maiden name. Do not delay in sending over these cards. It shows you have sincerely appreciated the gift and help offered to you during your wedding.


The wedding thank you card wording sayings should express gratitude as well as appreciation from both the groom and bride. You should write each note with personal reference to the gift. If you have received a monetary gift, let the person know how you plan to use it. Without wasting much time, let's have a look at a few wedding thank you card wording samples. You can find detailed information on wedding thank you note etiquette along with some samples of wedding thank you cards in the article wedding thank you cards etiquette.


Wedding Thank You Card Wording Examples


Thank You Card Wording Sample # 1


Dear Aunt Sara and Uncle Paul,
We were so excited to receive your gift the other day. I've already filled it with my favorite orchids. Thank you so much for your thoughtful and generous gift.
We look forward to seeing you on our big day!


Thank You Card Wording Sample # 2


Dear Bailey,
I can't believe you sent us a microwave oven. I am now on my way to grilling and cooking all kinds of recipes. I can't wait! Thank you so much for the very generous gift. We look forward to cooking something for you soon!


Thank You Card Wording Sample # 3


Dear Archie,
Thanks for the bottle of wine! Thomas and I have decided to save it for a special occasion - our first wedding anniversary. Thanks once again for thinking of us and for the most appropriate wedding gift.
Love,


Thank You Card Wording Sample # 4


Dear Mark and Stuart,


Thank you for your generous wedding gift. Martha and I have saved for a new LCD TV and your gift will finally enable us to purchase it. Thanks again and we both look forward to seeing you at the wedding!


Thank You Card Wording Sample # 5


Dear Mr and Mrs. Brown,


The one thing we truly needed was a new washing machine. You would not believe how many times we have already used it this week alone. Thank you so much, we just love it! Most importantly, we thank you for sharing our wedding day with us.


Sincerely,


These were a few wedding thank you card wording examples that you can use. You can even print some of the wedding thank you card sayings along with your wedding photographs. Hope the above examples have helped you find some useful wedding thank you wordings from the above given examples.


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Couples in counseling are often shocked to find out that their health insurance does not cover marriage counseling. In fact, health insurance only provides coverage for individual counseling. If couples counseling is to be paid for by your health insurance company, the counselor must commit fraud. In order to submit a claim that will be covered, the counselor must make the claim under the name of one and only one of the spouses or not make a claim at all. Otherwise, the couple must pay for the counseling out-of-pocket.

In my opinion, marriage counseling, and all counseling should not be submitted to health insurance for payment. As a marriage counselor in Overland Park, Kansas, I have not had anything to do with submitting claims to insurance companies for nearly a decade.

There are two primary reasons for this. First, when a claim is filed for services, the insurance company requests a great deal of information about the client in order to determine if the procedure (in this case counseling) is "medically necessary" and therefore, qualifies for payment. What most people don't realize is that all of that personal, private information, often not just about the person him or herself, but their family, is collected by the insurance company, codified and submitted to databanks that are available to anyone in the insurance industry. And it stays there indefinitely. The personal information does not expire after a certain time period, as does credit bureau information.

What this means is this personal and sensitive information is available to be taken into account in the future when this client makes a request for any other kind of insurance. Not only that, but the same personal information can and is used to determine disability coverage, life insurance coverage, security clearances, and job qualifications. For me, this breach of privacy is not worth using insurance reimbursement for counseling, marriage or otherwise.

Secondly, once the insurance companies are brought into the reimbursement process for counseling, they will determine how much and what kind of counseling is necessary, or when payment should stop. Generally speaking, these decisions about how much counseling a client should receive is made by staffers in the insurance company who have no clinical experience or direct knowledge of the clients needs. Generally speaking, the therapist has little to say about this finalizing decision. So, again, in my opinion, this loss of control over the counseling process is not worth what little bit the insurance company will provide to cover counseling.

No. If at all possible, get your marriage counseling paid for without using your insurance coverage. As a here is no justifiable reason that counseling should even qualify under health insurance reimbursement procedures.

Dentistry rarely is covered by health insurance. Accounting and legal services are not covered by insurance. Many health procedures that people use to sustain quality living, such as massage, spa treatments, yoga, meditation, and nutritional consultation are not covered by health insurance. People don't even think about insurance coverage when they procure these kind of services. As a result, privacy in these areas of service is protected and control over the services is retained by the provider and consumer, as it should be.

I use several ways of enabling my clients and me to come to agreeable compromises around paying for counseling without using health insurance coverage. I use credit cards. I negotiate fees down to a given minimum. I have an advance purchase program whereby clients receive up to a 25% discount depending upon the number of sessions they purchase in advance.

In most cases, after I explain the risks attached to using health insurance coverage for counseling services, clients gratefully request that I not submit my services to their insurance company for reimbursement and they pay out-of-pocket.

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How many weddings are there each year? Thousands, not just in your own country but worldwide, therefore making money out of wedding stationery is always going to be in demand. Not only is this in demand, but the avenues for purchasing these types of goods through specialist companies are expensive, you will be there giving the customer a cheaper option. Weddings still happen even in a recession and a cheaper alternative is always going to sell well.

So, why not design wedding stationary and sell it? All you need is a computer and printer and you have a cheaper alternative to the expensive stationery supplied through printing firms. You need to use good quality card and papers to print on and a decent printer, which are really quite cheap nowadays. you can achieve a professional finish for a very little outlay.

If you continue to do well you might want to consider investing into a hot foil printer or a lithographic printer to give an even more professional and consistent finish.

The marketing is easy as your target market is anything to do with weddings, you need not spend too much time sieving through to find good place to advertise. this kind of business is very well suited to mail order and delivery therefore is not limited locally but Internationally. Think of the market you have in front of you with the English speaking world population!

This is an easy, practical and achievable small business that can be done at home part-time with little investment other than time. You don't even need to be a talented designer as there are hundreds of free wedding stationary templates you can download and adapt.

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It is a common misconception that the jumper is just an item of clothing you put on in the winter to keep warm, with little regard for style. Over the past couple of years however the jumper has been seen in high fashion catwalk shows and in numerous designer stores as a key fashionable item for the winter. So now autumn/winter 2010 is well and truly here, it's time to look at how the designer jumper can be worn for a smart occasion - anything from a night in the pub through to a wedding.

The Occasion - A Wedding
It is often very difficult to decide what to wear to a winter wedding. You have to look ultra smart whilst still being warm. A wedding is also a transitional event so your outfit has to be suitable for the actual ceremony, whether it's a church, a hotel or a registry office, as well as for the wedding reception and evening party afterwards. So here's our guide to the perfect outfit for a winter wedding:

The trousers should be smart and tailored to follow the contours of the body. If they are too baggy they start to look too casual whilst tight fitting trousers will inhibit you when comfort is required. Your trousers should be in a medium-weight fabric so suitable for the cool outside air as well as the warmer party environment. Your trousers should be in a classic dark colour such as black, charcoal or navy to create the ideal base for your designer jumper.

The jumper should be fitted to the shape of the body. As with the trousers, you don't want your jumper to be too baggy or too tight. Ideally, your designer jumper should end on your hips and not the waist to ensure a clean transitional into the trousers. Colour-wise, a wedding is a joyous event so colour should be used to convey this. However for a winter wedding you should avoid pale colours such as yellow or baby blue. Instead opt for warmer tones such as burgundy, emerald green or deep purple.

The footwear should be smart and in a dark neutral colour that matches your trousers such as black. You need comfortable shoes as you are likely to be spending a lot of time on your feet, waiting for photos to be taken or on the dance floor having a boogie. Leather shoes are ideal as they keep your feet at an optimum temperature, as well as protecting them against the outside elements.

The Occasion - A Night In The Pub
Whether you're going to a local traditional pub or a more sophisticated wine bar style of pub, you can opt for a slightly more smart-casual style. So here's our guide to the perfect pub outfit:

Trousers are a little too smart for a night in the pub and can give you a 'came straight for the office' look. It's therefore a better option to wear jeans. However as some jeans can look too casual, it's best to opt for a pair of tailored designer jeans. The key colour for this autumn is dark indigo and you won't go wrong if you wear this colour denim to the pub.

The jumper should be bold in it's styling, creating the focal point of the outfit. The Police 883 jumpers collection contains a wide range of styles that are ideal for the pub. Take the Yuri Police jumper for example. This jumper is available in coral red which is a very in-trend colour for this autumn and makes a bold style statement. The cut is classic yet smart and a subtle logo to the chest conveys the designer element of this jumper.

The footwear for the pub doesn't have to be as smart as for a wedding but with dubious weather to contend with, it's often best to wear a pair of leather boots or shoes as oppose to trainers or pumps.

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There are a number of options for gifts that bridesmaids can give the bride to be. However, giving the bride-to-be wedding lingerie to be worn under her wedding gown, on her wedding night, and on her honeymoon is a time honored tradition that is shared between a bride and her best friends. While you can still buy her a blender or a place setting off her registry, choosing a luxurious night gown or a sassy pair of blue undies is a fun gift for a close friend. Here are a few suggestions for lingerie gifts for the bride-to-be.

White Silky Nightgown

A long white night gown with spaghetti straps is the ultimate look for a bride. Choose one made from beautiful silk with delicate lace embellishment. It is a classic bridesmaid gift for a bride to wear on her wedding night. Glamorous and ultra feminine, these gowns can be paired with a matching silk robe to complete the look.

Something Blue

The adage "Something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue" is still taken to heart by the modern bride. Give the bride her something blue in the form of underwear for her big day. Blue silk bikini or thong underwear under a wedding gown is a lighthearted trend many brides follow on their wedding day. The blue does not show under the petticoats and heavy white dresses that most brides wear, and it is a fun way to keep in tradition.

Honeymoon Wear

If you are throwing the bride a shower with a theme, choosing a lingerie theme is a fun alternative from the typical kitchen accessories. Since showers can be attended by bridesmaids and other female relatives, chances are that the bride will receive a wide range of dedicates that she will appreciate. Everything goes in a lingerie themed bridal shower. From camisoles and gowns, to bra and panty sets, this is a fun way to round out the bride's wardrobe for her honeymoon and beyond.

Robes

A robe is a perfect gift for a bride. She can wear on the day of her wedding, and she will be able to use it long after the day has passed. The style of robe depends on the bride's personal taste. The bridesmaids can give her a big and fluffy white robe or a thin and silky number to be worn while doing her hair and makeup prep on the morning of the wedding. A robe is both a lovely and a practical choice.

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Planning an eco friendly wedding begins before you even save the date. One of the most important aspects of any green wedding is conservation, and what better way to conserve than by using eco friendly wedding invitations. The fact is, conventional invites waste trees, use toxic ink, and the manufacturing process is often plagued with waste. If you don't want that on your conscience+you have many earth friendly options you can choose from.

Paperless Invites

Many eco friendly people opt to not send out wedding invitations at all. This the most eco friendly wedding invitation you can choose. If you decide to forgo sending out wedding invitations you have two options, you can call your guests, or you can send out evites. An evite is an Internet invitation. Evites are not just environmentally friendly, but they are also economical because they are most often free.

Paper Invites

If you decide that you want to send out paper wedding invitations you can still make eco friendly wedding invitations. The best choice of paper to use when you want your invites to be earth friendly is recycled paper. Recycled papers come in all different styles and color choices. Plus, not only do they look good but every ton of recycled paper that is sued saves 17 trees, 7,000 gallons of water, and prevents 60 pounds of pollutants from entering the atmosphere. Not to mention that it is an easy choice because most printers offer it as an alternative option.

If you don't like any of the recycled paper choices that are available to you, you can have your eco friendly wedding invitations made from an alternative fiber. There are several alternative options you can choose from including hemp, bamboo, and cotton. These options are a bit more expensive than the recycled paper options, but they are more refined and elegant looking than even a standard paper invite.

Minimize Invites

If you do choose to send out wedding invitations there are a few more things you can do to make them earth friendly. Eco friendly wedding invitations should not have multiple inserts. You should try to combine all the information that needs to be added to the invite on one sheet of paper, or create a wedding website with the added details. In addition to this, have your guest reply by phone rather than wasting paper on reply cards and the respective envelopes.

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