We have all been to weddings where you wonder why the bride is wearing white at her second wedding. Is this something that should be avoided? Custom states that at least an off-white would be more fitting. But it is the bride's choice. Even Valerie Bertinelli went with a blue gown for her second wedding.
Simple is usually expected for a second or third wedding. But that doesn't mean you can't plan a nice theme wedding that will be remembered. After all you want this memory to be far different from the first. You can plan things that will separate this from your first wedding. Make the day a little different. Save money and use some creativity. Having a do it yourself wedding might be helpful in doing both of these.
Planning a simple second wedding reception can help you introduce you new spouse. You may opt to get married first and have a wedding reception later. Either way you can still make this memorable.
Perhaps you and your partner both love old cars. Maybe add that to the wedding and reception. Large photos of old cars. A stages small scale scene that can show your tastes. A car cake. Maybe some headlights to give light. Centerpieces that look like the year of your favorite car. 50's sundae glasses with flowers or candy arrangements.
By making this a total experience it becomes memorable and gives your guests something to relate you to. That means that the guys will know your guy can fix a car. It might break the ice.
Maybe you are both sports fans. You have a favorite football team and his is different. Maybe you can build on that. Imagine others already knowing that you have found a common territory. You can still plan something simple but make it memorable. There are so many ideas that can be used for weddings. It is almost open territory. And if this is a second wedding it can help to make it more than just a wedding but a family event. Planning a simple second wedding reception can be more fun.
You can explore the hobbies and common grounds that you both share. Perhaps even a family idea if you have children. Get them involved. You can make your wedding invitations and use wording for uniting a family instead of just a couple. This can allow your children to feel a big part of the event.
So decide what you want to do get some help from family and friends and start your dream wedding. Planning a simple second wedding reception can be fun, but make it memorable too!